Welcome to my blog!


My name is Becky Schauer, I’m an Independent Damsel Pro for Damsel in Defense. My goal is to help you live a life that is uncontrolled by fear. Things happen that are beyond our control, but I’m here to encourage you to press on in confidence.


This blog is for people like you.

Women who are tired of being scared of their own shadow; who start to panic anytime they hear an unfamiliar sound, or see someone they don’t know. You may not feel this way all the time, but there are instances where your fear becomes irrational and may even prevent you from enjoying everyday activities. You’re worried about your kids and the dangers that they may face; worried that you may not be able to protect them. Women who wish they could get a handle on their fear.

I know where you are because I’ve been there.

I have been with this company for over 3 years, and I have learned a lot along the way. I’ve gone from a shy, nervous, young mom who would sprint to her car in the dark, to a calm, prepared woman who isn’t about to let fear stop me from living my life.

I know the all too familiar fear of the “what if’s”. What If something unthinkable were to happen to my children? What if something happens to my husband or I, that would take us away from them? I’ve lived with fears and anxieties for most of my life. This world can be a big and scary place, full of dangerous people and situations, but you
know what? My fear doesn’t control me anymore. The first time I held a stun gun in my hands and learned how it works and how to use it, I could feel my confidence growing and my anxiety melting away.


Free Guide to choosing personal protection

Many women don’t like to think about the possibility of falling victim to violence, so they procrastinate the decision to equip themselves. That was me for a long time too.  That’s why I’ve created a free, simple guide that will explain the basics of some of the non-lethal options that are available to you. This free gift is available as a thank you for receiving my newsletters (which will be filled with great safety tips, deal alerts, and access to exclusive events.) To get yours, simply fill out the short form here.



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Because of my business I am no longer a paranoid stay-at-home mom, making no financial contribution to my family, I have become a confident small business owner who is able to help provide some of the extras for my family. I’m so thankful that I am able to take some of the financial burden off my husband’s shoulders, while keeping my family as my number one priority. Confidence is so important to me. Yes, I am now more confident in my ability to protect myself and my children, but more importantly, my confidence is rooted in God. I know that regardless of what happens in this crazy world, God has a plan for my life and for the life of every member of my family.

The fear that used to rule over me was not a part of that plan. We know that He has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind. (2 Tim. 1:7)

I don’t know where you are in your life; I don’t know your circumstances, but I do know this – you do not have to be ruled by fear. You can overcome it, and I can help you get there.

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Confidently Becky